.: Of puppies and babies :.
Lately, we've had our hands full with our little pup. Levi was 6+ weeks old when we brought him home from the breeder and now, at 13 weeks old, we are so glad we 'took the plunge'. He's put on 3kgs in the last 3 weeks and is not even half his adult size as yet. Before we got him, Del and I use to look at people who were out walking their dogs at 9pm on a cold winter's night and wondered why anyone would - but now, we totally understand and have become 'one-of-those' ourselves!
Most of those we've spoken to say that this is 'good training' for when we eventually have a baby, but I beg to differ - I dont think anything could prepare one for parenthood.
Which brings me to the next topic - babies. It's a subject that has been coming up more frequently - we have been asked if we are planning for a baby, or actively trying...and we even sometimes get the odd "Why so early?". I suppose it's inevitable as most people we are friends with are around the same age or older.
To be honest, when Del and I were engaged, we did decide that we would have active contraception for a period of time. There was no set time frame and we both felt that we would know when the time was right. So, being a medico and hopeless at remembering daily meds, I opted for the Implanon - hassle-free, no need to remember the daily tablet, once-in-you're-good-to-go, higher success rate compared to barrier method etc . Early this year, I had it taken out - way before the 3-year mark, due to reasons unrelated.
So now, we're at a 'if-it-happens,it-happens' stage - which is exciting.
And if it does happen sooner rather than later...I've got things all worked out. Heh.
Being a health professional, I have all these ideals in my head. I supposedly know 'all' about morning sickness, bloated sensation and swollen feet. I know which way to lie when on my back (leaning to the left in case you're wondering). I know how to palpate which way bubs will be facing, I will be able to roughly estimate my due date, I'll be able to measure my own SFH, I'll know what Braxton-Hicks are and when to expect first movements of bubby.
I think I know what birth plan I will have and I know I wouldnt mind labouring and birthing in a public hospital.
And when bubs is born, I'll be able to examine it and know to expect really-SMELLY-YUCKY-meconium in the first 24hours. And then Im supposedly able to know the theory behind breastfeeding and the whole process of latching. I'll know what meds to take to help my 'milk-come-in'.
Following on from that, I've decided that I want to try modern cloth nappies with bubby - and I'll want to 'wear' it; either with a carrier or a mei-tai or a sling.
And the list goes on...
But at the end of the day, when I do meet our little one for the first time, amidst all the emotion, I hope I'll remember to 'give' him/her to God.
Man can only plan, but God directs.
